Thursday, 17 October 2013

The Diary of a Snail Whale: Weeks 28 - 40


So here we are.  It's Thursday 17th October and my estimated due date is Saturday 19th October.  No signs of anything happening soon although apparently the baby is 'nestling in nicely' into my pelvis, hence the reason for the occasional electric shocks when I'm walking! Thanks for that, baby. Thought I should complete the 'baby diary' now, while I still have the time and energy!

Week 28
Unfortunately the tingly hand problem is persistent and the physiotherapy didn't seem to help.  I am convinced it's not carpal tunnel syndrome and a trip to the local Osteopath confirms that it is referred pain from my thoracic spine.  It would appear I've turned into a bit of a stiff hunchback with the added weight and a swift manipulation makes all the difference.  Hurrah!  The bump is getting bigger and I can feel myself getting a bit more short of breath, particularly when lifting heavy limbs at work.  Talking at the same time as treating patients is proving to be quite a challenge!

Bob is currently on a health kick, which started with the pedometer challenge at his work where he has to take 10,000 steps daily.  He is motivated to lose a bit of weight before the baby arrives so he promptly draws up a 12 week training plan with the personal trainer at our gym.  This involves 6am starts and a commitment to get to the gym 4 times per week.  Rather him than me!  All I can manage is the odd walk, my pregnancy exercise DVD and a ride on the exercise bike! How energetic : )

Week 29
Swap numbers with a girl, Nicole, who I was doing my physiotherapy exercise classes with as we both finish our course of 10 classes at the same time.  She is due 4 weeks before me so I look forward to meeting her little bub when I finish up work.  We attended the first antenatal class this week which was the physiotherapy class - this mainly involved pelvic floor education with a strange (un)relaxation session at the end.  All the girls agreed that the 10 minutes spent lying down in darkness with whale music in the background and our hubbies standing like lemons round the perimeter of the room was not the most relaxing environment to be in!  The next antenatal class was a 2 hour class on breastfeeding.  Not one Bob and I were looking forward to but it was surprisingly good and interesting, even the boys were impressed!  

Week 30
Started to get leg cramps in bed (ouchy) and there was potential for sniffles although managed to catch them early with a good dose of vitamin C and some oranges! Surprising how I've managed to avoid any winter bugs with treating sniffly patients on a daily basis - this pregnancy must have boosted my immune system somewhat!  Manage to catch up with the netball girls, including 3 other pregnant ladies, and so we sit together with our Coca-Colas and swap pregnancy stories.  Tanya is due 3 weeks before me, her sister 5 weeks before me and the other Tania and I are about 2 days apart.  

Only 1 more week of work to go before our babymoon in the city - looking forward to it!



Week 31-32
Babymoon in the city was amazing - 5 star boutique hotel (Lyall hotel) in South Yarra - we generally chilled out, ate at some nice restaurants including George Calombardis' restaurant MamaBaba, went to High Tea at the Rialto in the city and saw the matinee performance of King Kong at the theatre.  Have a little hot flush in the theatre but quickly recover with an ice cream : )  Feeling good and enjoyed a pregnancy massage in the hotel.  

The following week, Renee, Corinna, Deb and I head back into the city for a make-up class and dinner at an authentic little Italian place on Chapel Street. The make up class was held by a make-up artist to the stars (including Gok Wan! haha)  and was held in a converted warehouse, complete with modelling white walls and lights/cameras etc. While waiting on the make-up class to start, Corinna couldn't resist her inner photographer and got me to jump in front of the white wall for a few snaps - hilarious!

Weeks 33-35
On the countdown now to finishing work - baby is definitely on the wriggle and perfecting his/her kung fu kick! A very weird sensation, almost like she is rolling around in there, with elbows and knees poking out all over the place!  We have our two remaining antenatal classes, both very good, one particularly long one on a Saturday (5 hours!!) where they show you round the maternity ward etc and let you know what happens with pain relief and caesareans etc.  We also learn how to bath and swaddle the baby! Quite entertaining.  I manage to get through the junior netball presentation night, standing on stage giving a speech with big bump on show.  Then off to another 5 star hotel for an overnight stay at Crown Towers in Melbourne, which we won at the local golf raffle (see previous post!)

Attended Chelsea and Gary's engagement party - wearing heels was a bad move!



Weeks 36-37  
Finish work and my colleagues throw a lunch for me on my last day - they are so generous, buying the baby a LED elephant mobile that changes colour and a pregnancy or newborn photo shoot at the local photography gallery.  They are all telling me to go for the shoot myself but think we will wait until bubs is a few months old so we can capture her grinning away and grabbing things.  Lovely food from the Grange as always, love their wraps! My patients Liz and Jacqi are so generous too - Jacqi has gone to town buying clothes and toys from Target and Liz has gone to so much trouble knitting a little white jacket and booties with a gorgeous baby blanket to match.  Time to write some thank you cards!  Spend my first week off work baking some goodies, packing the nappy bag, repacking my hospital bag and trying to study for my clinical exams.....although may have found a loop hole!! We have an appointment with the obstetrician who guesstimates arrival of bub at full term + 3 days (which is average) so 22nd October, watch this space!!












Bob is off to Melbourne to play golf for the week - I have been given about 10 zillion phone numbers for anybody who might be playing golf with him, just incase I can't reach him on his phone, or Ryan's phone, or John's phone.....He has been doing so well with his gym regime that he has lost a good 6-7kg which, unfortunately for him, has changed his golf game! He still played well despite rather odd team selections from the captain.  He managed to finish in the top 30 from 150 players in Victoria - a brilliant effort.  Think he is secretly pleased that the baby stayed in so he could complete the competition - I don't think he would have been very happy receiving a call when he was putting in for a win!
Week 38
Can't say I'm 'nesting' but definitely trying to relieve the boredom by cleaning things.  Very hard to resist buying things for the baby, it has quite the library already of Postman Pat, Thomas the Tank engine and the Lion King although I'm sure if we just read it the news to it everyday, that will do the same job.  Nursery is looking good and car seat is ready - just need the baby now!  

Been back to the obstetrician who discussed my diagnosis of 'gestational thrombocytopenia' with us - he just wants to check that my platelet level doesn't continue to fall otherwise might need some medication to bring it back up to normal.  Another blood test for me and we'll find out next week.  Baby growing nicely and we rented a TENS machine from the maternity ward - slightly cynical about whether it will help with pain relief or not, but willing to give anything a try!

Have turned into a 'lady who lunches' and have also done some shadowing work with the local neurological physiotherapist in preparation for my clinical exams.  Unfortunately see some paediatric patients with Downs Syndrome and Cerebral Palsy - great learning experience professionally but not such a great experience personally, I can feel the hormones kicking in!! Try not to overanalyse....

Time to stop watching One Born Every Minute.

Week 39
Get to have a cuddle with a newborn - Nicole has had her baby girl and so I pop round to her house for some nappy practice!  She is so small and snuggly, looking forward to meeting our own little bub soon.  Organise 'curry club' night at ours for the due date, 19th Oct, to hopefully kick start things....until then, I'll be eating some fresh pineapple and bouncing on the core ball!  Have yet to find raspberry leaf tea but this is next on the list of things to get labour started.  Buy Monopoly as a random purchase - is this what our Saturday nights will turn into? Rock'n'roll.

Obstetrician is happy with blood tests results so no meds for me - hurrah.  Baby continues to grow and the midwives all tell me it could be 'any day now' - if only!

Hear that Tania has had her baby too - her 3rd little girl, Pia Anne.  'sno fair, she was due after me!

Bob and I treat ourselves to a lazy Sunday morning breakfast in bed - we try and reproduce our amazing Crown Towers breakfast of Mango and Passionfruit smoothies, coffee, pancakes, bacon and maple syrup and a yummy bircher muesli and yoghurt concoction.  Unfortunately I chip a tooth and pray that it doesn't turn into toothache - that, combined with labour, would be a bad experience I'm sure! Trip to the dentist sorts it out : )



Week 40
2 days to go until I'll be into week 40 - accepting that our baby might be born on Halloween, I decide that I'll buy a couple of pumpkins and try my hand at carving!! Yes, this is how bored I am.  However, haven't yet gotten to the stage of cleaning the crumbs from the cutlery drawer.....when I do, then I'll know that I'm really overdue.

Dreaming of wine, camembert and brie, crackers and pate, prawn and avocado sushi....

Let the thumb twiddling begin! Time to put my feet up and eat some Dairy Milk....xxx

Wednesday, 16 October 2013

Just our luck! Another major raffle prize for us (September 2013)

So I'm sure most of you will be aware of our Golf Club raffle 'beginners luck' we had when we first arrived in Warragul.  Not only have we been lucky enough in the past to win a 32" plasma TV, set of golf clubs and $1000 travel voucher, but our luck reappeared (after a loooong dry spell) just last month.  We won an overnight stay in the 5 star Crown Towers on Southbank, Melbourne, complete with valet parking and breakfast.  Super smashin' great! Time for babymoon number 2...

On my last day of work, Friday 20th September, I finished up at lunchtime with a lovely farewell buffet, balloons and a gift of a newborn photoshoot from my colleagues (thanks colleagues!!), and promptly set off for the city with Bob to make the most of our last city break for a while.  Our 20 year old Jeep trundled up to the front door of Crown Towers and out we popped, hoping that our dodgy key lock would behave itself for the valet parking person.  (On the odd occasion, you can stand there for 2-3 minutes trying to get the electronic lock to click to let you in - you can look quite the numpty)  Not quite the vehicle that they are used to I'm sure but hey, it's still working after 260,000km! In we go to a rather grand reception area to check in.  Unfortunately we have been put into a smoking room on a smoking floor but this is quickly sorted and the room we end up in is a deluxe king room with massive floor to ceiling windows overlooking the Yarra River and city.  Perfect!  And it has a bath with a TV, even better, although I wasn't convinced I would be able to get in and out of it in a particularly elegant fashion.  

Time to explore! Crown Towers is one of three hotels in the Crown Casino complex, so it also has a shopping mall with the posh shops like Louis Vitton, Gucci etc and some awesome restaurants that can be accessed from inside the hotel - fabulous, not far for the pregnant lady to walk.  We discover Nobu, the Japanese restaurant (Andy Murray's favourite during Aus Open time apparently!) has happy hour 5--7pm with complimentary tapas - right up our street! A mocktail or two and a couple of beers for Bob keeps us occupied pre-dinner before we head back up to our room to smarten up a bit.  I stick on my one 'maternity' dress that looks half decent but give the heels a miss, and Mr Barr opts for his suit to kid on we look like we have the money to stay in this kind of place!  Always fun pretending. ...

After Bob has sampled the complimentary sparkling wine that came with our room (I opt for a sip but feel too guilty!) we head down to Rockpool Bar and Grill, Neil Perry's restaurant (he does the 1st class food for Qantas, might have seen him on Australian Masterchef at some point).  We can't afford the main restaurant ($100 for a lone steak!!) but the 'bar' area is lovely and we enjoy a Wagyu burger, steak, posh stylee mac'n'cheese and salad, washed down with some tonic water (yay) and a glass of wine for the hubby.   I couldn't resist having a cheeky peek at what the man next to me was having for his dinner and got caught out (oops) but this seems to have worked in our favour.  Both men were not short of a bob or two and in fact, once we got chatting, one of them gave us a voucher for a magnum of champagne for when the baby arrived - turns out he owns a winery in Victoria! Brilliant, thank you very much.  Bob bought him a whisky : )  We will never end up actually cashing in this voucher as I'm sure, in his inebriated state, this man will not remember who we are!  

Right, dinner was yum, now time to win some bucks at the casino - $2.50 roulette table, here we come!  Unfortunately, our luck appeared to have run out by this point and we spent approximately 15 minutes blowing our budget.  Rubbish.  Ah well, the semi-final of the AFL was on the telly so we ended up with a bunch of other people screaming at the screen.  Love a close game!



 Extra choccies for the pregnant lady

Bob trying to look all '5 star'


Can't beat some 'his & her dressing gown' photography


Anyway, enough about our night at Crown Towers.....I need to tell you about the morning after.  After a brief dip in the pool, we headed to the Conservatory for some caffeine and a wee croissant.  We did not anticipate that breakfast would require course planning to ensure that we didn't miss out on anything - it was amazing!  I would recommend that you get on a plane and come and sample it for yourselves.  I think we both had about 7 courses over 2 hours, all the food was simple irresistible.  Included in breakfast was a chocolate fountain, real bee honeycomb for us to catch our own honey, delicious smoothies, an omelette station, a bakery stall, a pancake station, an entire Asian table, breads and cheeses, any juice you wanted, and obviously the usual fry-up section.  YUMMO.  We would actually like to go there again instead of a night out and dinner.  I wonder if we could book a table for Bob's birthday???

Once we decided that we were able to move again (this took at least an hour), we had a leisurely day in the city, visiting the Queen Vic Market and stocking up on herbs and spices etc, before heading for afternoon coffee and cake in Brunswick street.  We had been invited round to dinner by Susie, our friend who has recently moved to Melbourne from the UK, and we popped over about 6pm to catch up with her and her fella, David before driving home.

A perfect ending to our second baby moon - we are very jammy! xxx

Belated Baby Shower Update! End Aug 2013

I can't believe it's taken me so long to update this blog, given that I've now been on maternity leave for the best part of 4 weeks.  Where has the time gone?  Time to update you on the baby shower, second bonus baby moon city break and the latest in the baby diary.  Note all those things contained the word 'baby' so if you are completely over it, then I'd suggest waiting until the next blog update! Ah, wait, no, I'll probably be telling you more baby news then.....in fact, this baby might feature quite highly in blog posts for the next few months to years! Still trying to get my head around the fact that we will have a little Barr to look after....forEVER.  Eeeek!

Anyway, first things first.  My wonderful friends Renee, Lauren and Corinna decided to organise a baby shower for me.  None of us had ever been to one but thought it was an excellent excuse for tea and cake and general girly silliness.  Lauren, chief baker in our orphan group, picked a 'ginger' theme for the cake - she had read on various websites that the baby shower was when the sex of the baby was revealed, usually by cutting the cake to reveal the appropriate pink or blue colour.  This was not going to work for us as no one has a scooby doo whether it is a boy or girl, hence the reason she went for a ginger flavour in the hope that our little Scottish baby would have a gingernut.  Not only that, but she went further with the placenta jelly and the strawberry lace umbilical cord.  It was amazing, if a little yukky!  Non-alcoholic punch was yum too.  Renee was in charge of the entertainment, including various quizzes, guessing the size of my bump with string and estimating how many jelly babies in the jar.  Bob even got stuck in at the end of the day, with his nappy changing kit, attempting to put a nappy on Eeyore (thanks Aunt Anne!).  He didn't do a bad job I have to say!  In addition to the games, everyone wrote their predictions for the arrival of Baby Barr, some of which have been discarded already as I'm now 39 weeks and 5 days writing this.  No early arrival for us!  Corinna was general organiser and I think she was in charge of contacting my friends and family back home (a complete but lovely surprise to me) for little words of wisdom, cards, baby photos and little pressies.  She was also in charge of the 'stripey' theme (I apparently wear a lot of stripes) - she told everyone else the dress code but she didn't tell me but hey, I still managed it, predictable or what!  All in all, it made me realise what fabulous friends and family I have, from both sides of the world and I'll just take this moment to thank you all again for the efforts you put in to making the day really special.  My first baby shower! Can't wait for one of my friends to get pregnant over here so I can return the favour.  Muchos fun!  xxx